Our Services

Ceremonies that reflect your uniqueness as a couple

WHAT WE OFFER

As a Michigan wedding officiant serving Ann Arbor, Ypsilanti, Metro Detroit, and beyond, I specialize in custom, non-traditional, and lgbtq+ wedding ceremonies designed around your story and your values.

Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement, a joyful backyard celebration, or a fully personalized ceremony that tells your love story from beginning to future, I work closely with you to create a wedding experience that feels meaningful and inclusive.


Marriage License Signing

$100

Perfect for couples who need a marriage license signing in Ann Arbor, Ypsilanti, Metro Detroit, or anywhere in Michigan. This option includes a simple signing or a brief ceremony if desired.

  • Legal marriage license signing

  • Optional short ceremony

  • Two witnesses required (can be provided if needed)

  • Marriage license filed on your behalf

  • Flexible scheduling for time-sensitive weddings or elopements

❦ Sweet & simple ceremony

$400

A personalized wedding ceremony designed to celebrate your relationship in a meaningful yet streamlined way. Ideal for couples who want something heartfelt, custom, and memorable without a fully story-driven ceremony.

  • Ceremony planning interview

  • Written questionnaire

  • Draft review and revisions

  • Optional rehearsal attendance (+$50)

  • Marriage license filing

❦ Fully custom ceremony

$600

A completely custom wedding ceremony in Southeast Michigan or statewide, crafted to tell your full love story: how you met, what you’ve built together, and what your partnership represents. Perfect for non-traditional, LGBTQ+, geeky, or highly personalized weddings.

  • In-depth planning interview

  • Custom ceremony writing

  • Draft review and revisions

  • Optional rehearsal attendance (+$50)

  • Marriage license filing

  • “Her ceremony was so perfectly tailor-made that members of our family even asked if we’d written it ourselves and simply handed it to her! (Not possible – it was far too nicely done!)”

    Past Client

  • “In short, Emily *gets* people. She loves them. She genuinely wanted to learn our story.”

    Past Client

  • “You’ll get no better experience and the price is really too low for the amount of time and quality she puts into the ceremony.”

    Past Client

Frequently asked questions

  • Yes, I proudly officiate weddings throughout Ann Arbor, Ypsilanti, Metro Detroit, and surrounding areas in Michigan. I am happy to travel to your wedding location, whether it’s in a city venue, outdoor setting, or a private space. I provide personalized wedding officiant services to make your day unforgettable.

  • Yes, I am a licensed wedding officiant in Michigan, Ohio, and Pennsylvania. This allows me to officiate weddings in these states and provide legal, customized wedding ceremonies to couples. Whether you’re getting married in Michigan or traveling from another state, I’m here to make your ceremony perfect.

  • Yes, I specialize in non-religious and secular wedding ceremonies. I work closely with couples to craft a meaningful ceremony that reflects their personal beliefs and values, without any religious elements.

  • Yes, creating fully customized wedding ceremonies is my specialty! I collaborate with couples to design a ceremony that reflects their love story, values, and personality. Whether you want a traditional or modern feel, or even something completely unique, I’ll work with you to create a personalized ceremony.

  • A typical wedding ceremony lasts around 30 minutes, including the processional and recessional. However, the duration can vary based on your preferences. If you’d like a shorter or longer ceremony, I’ll work with you to tailor the timeline to your vision for your day.

  • Yes, I proudly officiate LGBTQ weddings in Michigan. I am committed to making all couples feel welcomed, valued, and supported on their wedding day. No matter your background or orientation, I’ll create a ceremony that honors your unique love and commitment to each other.

  • I made a handy guide to help you! Check it out here.

    To get legally married in Michigan, you need to meet three key requirements:

    • Be at least 18 years old.

    • Be unmarried to anyone else.

    • Obtain a marriage license from the county clerk’s office.

    For Michigan residents, the marriage license must be requested from the county where either you or your partner reside. If you’re coming from out of state, you must apply for your marriage license in the county where the ceremony will take place. Once you have your license, you’re ready to get married anywhere in Michigan!

  • To obtain a marriage license in Michigan, you and your partner will need to provide three forms of identification:

    1. An unexpired driver’s license, state-issued ID, or county-specific ID card.

    2. Your birth certificate (does not need to be a certified copy, but must be issued by a government office—not a hospital certificate).

    3. Your social security number (just the number itself is fine).


    For internationally-born applicants, you can use the following in place of a birth certificate:

    • Green card

    • Unexpired Employment Authorization Card

    • Naturalization Papers

    • Valid passport (U.S. or foreign, with acceptable visa status if applicable)

    • Canadian or Mexican birth certificates (if translated)


    Marriage License Fees:

    • In-state applicants: $20

    • Out-of-state applicants: $30

    • There is a 3-day waiting period after applying, and the marriage license is valid for 33 days. If you need your license expedited, a small fee applies.


    Learn more about the process here, where I go in depth about requirements, fees, and more.

Contact Smitten State

Looking for a Michigan wedding officiant for a custom or LGBTQ-inclusive ceremony? I’d love to hear about your plans.